In the modern Western world, the words ‘sensuality’ and ‘sexuality’ are often used interchangeably. This merging of definitions is emblematic of a broader misunderstanding that tends to prioritize the sexual aspects of a relationship over the sensual, intimate, and spiritual connections that can exist between two people. In many Eastern countries, such as Thailand, it is quite common to encounter portrayals of sensuality and lovers embracing which are integrated into the historical buildings and architecture. Public displays of erotica are censored in many Western communities, creating a hidden or illicit connotation towards sexuality and therefore sensuality.
Let’s explore this through an example: the Kama Sutra. 
Did you know that the Kama Sutra, penned over 1,500 years ago in India, is not just about sex? In fact, the word ‘Kama’ means desire, and ‘Sutra’ means a guide or manual. This ancient text is actually a profound guide to living harmoniously, where the pursuit of love and living skillfully are woven seamlessly together.
In the 19th century, when the Kama Sutra was first translated into English, it created quite a stir. However, the Western world focused on a single chapter dedicated to sex positions, which only forms a small part of the text. Much of the spiritual, emotional, and intellectual wisdom was glossed over.
The Western fascination with the Kama Sutra seems to begin and end with sex. While it is undeniable that the sexual aspect of the book is detailed and intriguing, focusing solely on this part is like reading one chapter of a novel and assuming you know the entire story. The Kama Sutra offers far more—insights into finding a life partner, enhancing attractiveness, and even managing a household.
So, let’s break the myth: the Kama Sutra is not just an ancient Indian ‘sex manual’. It is an eloquent and wise teacher, speaking to us across the centuries about how to live, how to love, and how to connect deeply with others. It encourages us to think about sex as just one part of a complex, rich tapestry of human existence.
The Western interpretation of the Kama Sutra as a guide for exotic sexual positions is a simplistic and incomplete perspective. The true depth of this ancient text lies in its holistic approach to living a fulfilled and balanced life.
So, next time you hear a casual mention of the Kama Sutra in a playful context, remember that behind that name lies a profound and extensive guide to living well, loving deeply, and engaging in purposeful existence. It’s about time we, in the Western world, start embracing and learning from the entirety of this rich and enlightening text. And, yeah, maybe pick up a copy…
